“You cannot give informed consent when you don’t know who your partner actually is.”
In the last few days, several news stories have come across my news feed where a gay or lesbian person has been pretending to be the opposite sex to get into bed with straight people. This does not go well.
In 2013, a 26-year-old woman was put on probation for pretending to be a teenage boy and having sexual contact with two teenage girls. The woman identifies as a man and wanted to have sex-reassignment.
Earlier this year, a 25-year-old woman was jailed for 8 years for pretending to be a man to have sex with her female friend. She does not seem to have a male gender identity.
A MtF trans teen has his own BBC documentary about trying to date straight men and being rejected.
In all three of these cases, the subject is actually homosexual but pretending not to be. Even though same-same marriage is being legalized…
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